Your personality is dynamic. It changes with time and new experiences. But certain core values remain the same and your fingers can help tell what those values are.
You may not realize it but your body speaks volumes about who you are as a person. In fact, it can reveal parts of your personality that even you may have been unaware of. Surprising, right? Just take a look at your hands. The length of your ring finger when compared to your index finger can say a lot about you. And here's what it means:
If your ring finger is longer than your index finger, you're the kind of person who naturally draws people to you. The confidence you have is certainly visible to others and has the ability to inspire. The same confidence allows you to take risks, ones that are often rewarding. Whether it's in your professional life, with your loved ones, or even your partner, success tends to come easier. However, what many don't realize is how hard you work for that success as well.
Sometimes, you may come across as too intense but when you know what you want, you're not the type to shy away from vocalizing it and achieving it. It's how you're even able to keep the sparks flying between you and your partner. It also helps you survive even the toughest experiences, the kind that a lesser person would buckle under the pressure from. You didn't come by this trait easily though. Heartbreaking events have taught you how to be strong and to understand that you are important too and that no one can say otherwise.
However, it is necessary to tone down your intensity based on your situation as you may come off as arrogant or immature, causing their first impression of you to be skewed. Because of that, you may have felt misunderstood but with your intelligence and confidence, you know that you can do it. And your loved ones, the right people, have faith in you.
If your index finger is longer than your ring finger, you're the type of person that people look up to. They see your wits and the imaginative way you overcome hurdles. Some people may have even told you that they wish they could be you. After all, your passion and your open mind allow people to feel that you have all the answers. You have an uncanny way of molding yourself into a person that the situation demands. But what's most attractive about you is your willingness to get down to someone else's level to help them.
That being said, what people don't see is the years of rejections and subsequent practice that has finally given you this ability. It's why sometimes the expectations that people have of you can be stressful. Unlike what they think, you don't have all the answers and you're constantly learning new things yourself because you want to. Sometimes, you feel like you just want to run away from it all and let someone else take over for a while. You need some time and space to recharge before you can step back into the role. And not everyone understands this, including your partner. You worry sometimes that people will be disappointed when you don't live up to their standards.
Yet, as a natural leader, it's not in you to just lay down and give up. Even with the weight of people's opinions and expectations of you, you will triumph. With everyone's best interest in mind, you pull yourself together, bring the badass that you are to the forefront, and take it in your stride.
If your index finger and ring finger are of equal length, you're that person that everyone spills their guts to. Strangers, lovers, friends, family... they are all drawn to the vibe that you give out... the one that says "I'm here for you and I won't judge." Your ability to listen and to make the other person feel important is a trait that is rare. Of course, your brutal honesty isn't exactly what they want to hear sometimes, but soon enough, they come around because they know they'd rather hear the truth from you.
Compassionate, kind, and peaceful are just some of the words that others tag you with. Your glow is even brighter when you're helping people out and it's one no one can ignore, even your harshest critic. And because you don't do it to get something in return, but rather just because you're that kind of person, people trust you almost implicity.
This empathy of yours though does bring its own drawbacks. You wish people would stop trying to take advantage of your kind nature and would realize that empathy doesn't automatically make you gullible or stupid. In fact, it offers you the power to see through others and know their heart. But possibly, what worries you the most is as much you listen to others, you might not have someone who will listen to you. Sometimes, you feel that harboring everyone's secrets may just break you down. Don't worry though. There's a ball of strength inside you, perhaps a hidden one, that will be there to lift you up the way you do others.